Some background; Got a call from Scarlett who was at the store wanting to know whether I had carried through on my warning to her that I would be taking her off the one remaining credit card of mine that she was still using. Told her yes. And she hung up. A little later I received another call informing me that what I'd done was illegal and that I could go to jail so I better reinstate her pronto. She told me to review the back page of the divorce summons she'd had me served with a year ago this past May.
What follows, in the order that it occured is the email exchange between us. I post this not to necessarily cast any aspersions on Scarlett but to show beyond a shadow of a doubt, that my claims of her immaturity, inability to properly handle money, piss poor decision making capability as well as her desire to put the responsibility for her actions onto others is not just some fantasy of mine.
- Salty
On Dec 23, 2017, at 3:42 PM, Salty wrote:
So I'm going to jail? Because I removed you as an authorized user from my credit card? Not hardly.
That does not fall under my fiduciary duty. What does fall under that category is the requirement to provide 5 days advance notice prior to incurring any extraordinary expense. You know, like..oh let me think...$**,000 of cash "gifts". Like that.
You don't have any money? Tough. Maybe if you hadn't spent the past 19 months giving it away to XXXX, XXXXX, XXXX, eating establishments, church, Venus, some dumb kid in Central America or wherever that scam is taking place, triple pane windows....and that's just off the top of my head concerning the money you liberated from A*** and the safes that you yourself spent.
Over that same 19 month span of time you also managed to charge over $**,000 on just the S******* card! In other words, what you blew through in 19 months is what some FAMILIES live on for a year! And you think I'm going to reinstate anything? No. Let me repeat that. NO!
Reclaim the money you gave away from XXXX. From XXXXX. From XXXX. Why the hell did I have to pay almost $*00 to fix her washer when you'd already given her (at least) $*,000 of OUR money??
You blew it Scarlett. Big time. I told you for years to slow it down. I even told you during the past 19 months to slow it down. Told you you better be careful. Did you listen? Absolutely not. And what happened? Exactly what I knew would happen. You spent yourself broke and now you're trying to drag me down with you. Piss on that.
You know what the final straw was that led me to removing you as an authorized user? Of course you do. But just in case - your absolutely stupid, humiliating, teenage f**k me night with "boy" ...and how did that end?? Oh yeah, with you in a puddle of your own blood, slipping and falling in your own blood and defiling a marriage bed with that same blood. You must be so proud. Does your mom know about this? Someone really ought to tell her....
You made your (bloody) bed Scarlett. Hope you enjoy lying in it. Maybe Mr. too-afraid-to-come-out-and-face-me-Mercedes can help you out. Unbelievable! Did that poor sap know he was sleeping in a bed stained in blood and who knows what else from someone else from only a week ago??
You are sick Scarlett. Really sick. Or maybe you just never grew up. Or both. A sick little teenager.
Sent: Saturday, December 23, 2017 3:48 PM
To: Salty
Subject: Re: Jail
Yes. You WILL go to jail. Merry Christmas. I have 0 money to buy gifts. Thanks for making it even better. I just wanted it to be January so I could get as far away from you as possible. Congratulations! You have just made it lovelier. No I have no money to buy gifts, eat, or put gas in my car. YES!! It is illegal for you to do this!!!
Uh, no Scarlett. It is stupid, irresponsible, immature and foolish for you to have done this to yourself. Were $**,000 of gifts necessary? NO. Triple pane windows? NO. A cruise? NO. Almost $*,000 (probably more) of clothes? NO. Dance lessons? NO. Dance shoes? NO. Central American poor kid scam? NO. Constantly eating out? NO. Changing locks? NO. Destroying safes? NO. An ER visit on 12/14 due to an illicit sexual encounter? NO.
You have NO money to buy gifts or gas because of what YOU foolishly decided to spend money on! Illegal for ME to do this??? I had NOTHING to do with it except to again and again and again try and talk SOME sense into you! YOU did this to yourself Scarlett. YOU! Not me. It's long past time that YOU take responsibility for YOUR actions! YOU took $**,000 and change away from me last year. $** grand. FAMILIES live on that. YOU pissed it away. YOU! And now you try and pin the blame for YOUR irresponsible actions on someone else? Please, bring the charges. I will relish explaining all of this to any judge!
YOU are responsible for your stupid, immature, childish decisions and YOU get to deal with the consequences of those stupid, immature and childish decisions. YOU! Not me. YOU!
Surprised you voted for Trump when Bernie seems more your style. But the problem with socialism, as you've just discovered, is that eventually you run out of other people's money to piss away.
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Whoo. Salty is steamed! Good boy. What she pissed away, I did live on last year or right around there and still had enough to save and take a couple of trips! Huh.
ReplyDeleteI also warned her to stop spending so much and that she was NOT"showing you" but showing herself because you were aware of how much she took out of the safe and two banks accounts. I told her at least half that was yours. I don't care was the answer I got. I deserve to have some fun. So I guess she did.